Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

Ask For What You Want, Part Two: People Pleasing

Are you good at asking for what you want? Some insight into those who struggle with it.

How Chicago Failed Its Most Vulnerable: The Heat Wave of July 1995

31 years ago, a three-day disaster revealed an ongoing one.

Bitter Forever

So... -- after all my hardened bitterness from too many lonely, manless years and -- after all the advice I’ve received that suggested that I’d find a man if I weren’t so bitter and -- after all my dating jadedness and anger because it felt like the world had cheated...

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Understatement

I said, “Do you always have to have this many lights on?”He said “Yeah, I like a lot of light.”I said, “Well, I hadn’t turned any lights on because I like it dark.”He said, “Okay.”I said, “So we’re pretty much going to be, like, you’ll be walking into rooms and...

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Full-time job search

Okay, my part-time job search is now a full-time job search. I've had it. I do not belong in this restaurant. It's just not for me and I don't want to be there. I'm throwing myself into seeking and applying to restaurants that want full-time servers, whether they're...

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“Are you a student?”

.flickr-photo { border: solid 2px #000000; }.flickr-yourcomment { }.flickr-frame { text-align: left; padding: 3px; }.flickr-caption { font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px; } Regina & chicken, originally uploaded by regrodriguez. Back in 1984, when I was an undergrad...

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The end of the tunnel!

Tonight I had a very encouraging job interview. Before I went to the interview I was talking to my friend Robert, NYC jazz pianist, about my job woes. I was saying that I feel surrounded by co-workers who crave the tidal wave of customers that crush you and then...

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Which Literature Classic Are You?

Um, okay. I guess this is about right. T.S. Eliot was one of my favorite poets in college. And that was when I had hope for my life. Which literature classic are you? T.S.Eliot: The Wasteland. You are a desperate cry to God, moulded in intricate word-craftmanship....

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My Ideal Job

HERE we go! From Craig's list:Looking for Club Dancers Reply to: job-142045031@craigslist.org Date: 2006-03-15, 3:05AM CSTEstablished Chicago nightclub looking for new, fresh, female sexy dancers for Friday night gig. Exp. a plus but not important. Please forward pics...

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Part-time Job Search

Okay, here's the compromise solution to my life: I cannot live on what I'm earning as a hostess right now, so I'm back on job search for a part-time position as a server. A part-time job will allow me to earn what I need, plus I'll get a chance to find out what...

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Friday’s Chicago Rally

Last Friday March 10th, as I worked at 33 W. Monroe, I noticed there was a demonstration happening nearby. I managed to catch a bit of what was going on, but I was far from really knowing the details. It turns out our friend Elf was there. I asked him to write a brief...

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Monday doesn’t look so bad now

From News of the Weird by Chuck Shepherd: The Wichita Eagle reported in January that Mary Capps, 45, had filed a $75,000 gender-discrimination lawsuit against her former boss at a municipal office in Park City, Kansas, claiming he'd used "abusive, intimidating...

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