Ready or Not to Die
When my depression is bad, I feel ready.
Stop with the Joy
Joy doesn’t feel welcoming. Listening to our pain would be.
Cold Civil War
It’s a new Cold War, but this time it’s just us.
What Do You Do During the Christmas Season?
My hope lies in friendship.
Body Grief
Acceptance comes after grieving.
Seeking BIPOC Chicagoans Who Like Horror
Looking for the scary Chicagoans of color
Working from Home Doesn’t Mean Being Alone, But It Does for Me
I work hard to find/build community, but I haven’t found it through my job.
It’s the 20th Anniversary of Chicana on the Edge!
This blog started on June 17, 2004. What do you think?
We Don’t All Do Family
Childhood taught me family can be a dangerous place
Images of Illinois Natural Beauty
My ex-husband has a great eye as a nature photographer
The Less-Caffeine Experiment
I’ve found that less caffeine means more sleep
Mother’s Day Is Trickier Than You Think
Only wish someone a happy Mother’s Day if you’re certain it’s not a painful day for her.