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You Might Have Prosopagnosia If…
Prosopagnosia makes it hard to tell people apart. Do you have it?
Ready or Not to Die
Sometimes I feel ready.
Body Grief
Acceptance comes after grieving.
Working from Home Doesn’t Mean Being Alone, But It Does for Me
I work hard to find/build community, but I haven’t found it through my job.
We Don’t All Do Family
Childhood taught me family can be a dangerous place
I Hate Myself: Depression and Low Self-Esteem Aren’t Always Linked
You’d think getting rid of one would take care of the other, but no.
What Causes Obesity?
These have nothing to do with what you eat or how you exercise.
Christmas Still Isn’t Right
Christmas 2020 sucked. This was supposed to be better.
Did You Have a Terrible Birthday This Year?
My birthday highlighted how little I’ve accomplished in the past 16 months. You?
My Middle Age Morale Problem
My life isn’t worse than it used to be; the problem is that I don’t have as much hope.
Losing Weight Isn’t about Losing Weight
Complaining about my weight gets understanding, but the real problem is self-esteem.
Response to the Derek Chauvin Verdict
It’s all right for white people to not make a statement to people of color about the Chauvin trial.
Think Before You Message About Racism
When racist violence prompts you to reach out to a person of color, a better gesture might be to send that outraged text to a white person.
I Have Seen The Light and It Is Awful
Realizing there’s more to existence didn’t cause gratitude. It’s been kind of horrible.













