Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

Ask For What You Want, Part Two: People Pleasing

Are you good at asking for what you want? Some insight into those who struggle with it.

How Chicago Failed Its Most Vulnerable: The Heat Wave of July 1995

31 years ago, a three-day disaster revealed an ongoing one.

La Marcha

Monday's forecast for Chicago:Rain showers early, becoming a steady, soaking rain later in the day with a few rumbles of thunder possible. High 62F. Winds SSE at 10 to 20 mph. Chance of rain 70%.Evening: Showers and thundershowers likely. Low near 55F. Winds SSE at 10...

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I’m a Bad Mexican, Part Two

I'm a Bad Mexican, Part One is here. Even though I’ve attained a certain sense of peace about the position I occupy as the English-dominant, more-American-than-Mexican granddaughter of immigrants, I’m aware of the complications of my position regarding the planned...

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Motherhood, no thanks

Maybe this is appropriate with Mother's Day coming up. Here's yet another reason (among several) that it's good I never reproduced. From the April 24, 2006 Newsweek article Not Always 'the Happiest Time':Pregnancy probably doesn't cause depression, per se, but just...

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Tuesday

The new restaurant is straightening out problems, training cooks, stocking up on tableware and supplies, and having "mock dinners" (we invite a sympathetic and patient audience and practice serving and feeding them. They give us feedback and we give them a free meal)....

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How could I be MORE dense!

How is it possible that I've gained eight pounds since the fall, but when I measure myself I'm still the same size? Is it possible that I could be gaining weight in a way that doesn't show on the outside? Maybe I'm increasing my muscle mass. Or increasing the density...

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Reality?

It's SO GOOD to no longer be at a job I really didn't want! Isn't it, Joel? How are things going with you, Joel? I had a glorious day yesterday of sleeping in, doing a nice, long workout and having dinner with my BOYFRIEND (yes, my BOYFRIEND, it's still a startling...

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ITMFA

My favorite sex columnist and yours, Dan Savage of Savage Love, has started a website devoted to spreading the slogan "ITMFA." It stands for "Impeach the Motherf@#$er Already" and it's clearly time. Savage's site sells ITMFA buttons and lapel pins, but...

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Why can’t Easter be more like Christmas?

I have always found Easter depressing. It’s like the pale, listless cousin of Christmas. I don’t understand it because Jesus being born was certainly a big deal, but wasn’t him rising from the dead an even more impressive event? Christmas was the day this baby god was...

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Counting Down the Days

I'm stealing Joel's recent blog post title since I, too am counting the days until I leave my current job. Training for the new restaurant started last week and it's great. I am learning so much about Indian food, geography, culture. This week we concentrate on spices...

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I Quit!

Modigli quit. Joel quit. And I quit.I quit!I recently interviewed at a soon-to-open restaurant that felt like such a good fit, I suspected my job search was over. Well, on Sunday I got a call and they offered me the job! I accepted and Wednesday I went to the first...

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