Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

Ask For What You Want, Part Two: People Pleasing

Are you good at asking for what you want? Some insight into those who struggle with it.

How Chicago Failed Its Most Vulnerable: The Heat Wave of July 1995

31 years ago, a three-day disaster revealed an ongoing one.

I Hate Being Needed

The one place I don’t mind being needed is at my job. I’m a server in a restaurant.I’m constantly needed there.People need me to see them, talk to them, be nice to them.They need me for hours and hours and what they need from me includes the most basic need of all: to...

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Have you seen An Inconvenient Truth yet?

Imagine you've finally reached the income level you've dreamed of. After working hard and keeping your life goals in sight, you're finally going to build the house of your dreams and drive the car of your dreams and settle into the community of your choice. Life will...

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Torn

Feeling pulled in different directions these days. Want to blog about real things like global warming and sex, but personal life is getting in way (boyfriend on the way out?). Work going well, starting to feel financially solvent, really like new restaurant/co-workers...

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How to Think About Sex

I just sent a letter to my lawmakers, Representative Jan Schakowsky, Senator Barack Obama and Senator Dick Durbin. Remember a few months ago when rogue pharmacists were refusing to fill prescriptions for morning-after pills because their “religious” beliefs prevented...

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Al Gore’s Movie Debut

.flickr-photo { border: solid 2px #000000; }.flickr-yourcomment { }.flickr-frame { text-align: left; padding: 3px; }.flickr-caption { font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px; } Al Gore's Movie Debut, originally uploaded by regrodriguez. Yes, I've heard of global warming....

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More Inconvenient for some than for others

When I was 20 I left a movie theater with a very nauseated feeling. It could easily have been the movie (Michael J. Jox's Secret of My Success), but ever since then a kind of motion sickness makes sitting in any movie theater a struggle to keep from throwing up (and...

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Another Day, Another Menu

Today - third day of training. On second day, big allergy pill took care of hayfever symptoms, but then cold symptoms became obvious and continued to f$%* up my ability to taste. Chinese restaurant chicken soup did pretty good job of knocking out those symptoms, and...

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(another) first day on the (another) job

Training Schedule: 8:00 a.m. til 4:00 p.m. today, Wed, Thurs, Fri and next Monday.Excellent part: cool people, non-scary general manager, district supervisor everyone obviously loves, teamwork, wonderfully detailed training (5 days of it, eight hours a day!), great...

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Success

1. My new SERVER job at a downtown, corporate restaurant starts tomorrow.2. The against-all-odds relationship with my new boyfriend (boyfriend) is almost five months old.3. Today I weigh 124 lbs and have reached my first weightloss goal.My life finally doesn't suck!...

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The Sleep Factor in Weightloss

(I posted this last August, but I'll do it again since I'm currently on this weightloss kick.)Finally, a way to fight obesity that isn't about dieting and exercise -- make sure you get enough sleep! An article in the July/August 2005 issue of Nutrition Action...

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“How Many Months?”

Last month I was making some copies at a UPS store. It was a sunny, warm day so I had taken off my sweater and was feeling relaxed in a pair of black, elastic-topped slacks and a tucked-in pink cotton shirt. The Latino guy at the cash register couldn't have been more...

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Details

Before this fat-under-siege plan I was probably eating between 2200 and 2400 calories a day (I'm 5 feet, 2 inches).Motivation: Last summer's shorts and jeans no longer fit!5/1/06 Weight: 130Daily Calorie Goal: 1900 (maximum I allowed myself)Daily Exercise: 40-50...

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