Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

How To Be Unemployed

Don’t punish yourself.

The Good, the Bad, the Old and the Young

Thinking about the good old days? Stop it.

Things Will Get Better. Here’s Why.

As bad as everything seems in 2026, I have hope!

Happy Day to All Women Who Raise Children

On Mother's Day I appreciate National Public Radio for recognizing the millions of women around the world who don't raise children of their own, but have a big role in the lives of other children, related or unrelated. Take a look at their story on Melanie Notkin...

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Spooky Mother’s Day!

It's Mother's Day and my husband will be working in a very busy restaurant all day. I'll be visiting my mother later this month and my friends are all with their mothers, so I'm thinking of taking myself to the creepiest museum in Chicago: The International Museum of...

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Star Wars Day

Would someone get this walking carpet out of my way! (What's your favorite Star Wars quote?)

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An Un-Mother’s Day Party

I am a 44-year-old Mexican American woman who has lots of friends, but most of them have never been married. Also, most of my friends are not mothers. I somehow manage to seek out peers who have not followed the socially prescribed life path. Sunday, May 8th is...

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Happy Easter!

Happy Easter!

I'm re-posting this photo from last year's Easter post because it's a party cake in the shape of an instrument of horrible torture and death. And could there possibly be more frosting on this thing? What a festive-grim holiday. Happy Easter! Fight the grimness!

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Easter Will Be Better Than Bad!

I don't like Easter. It seems to me like the sad little cousin of Christmas, destined to live in the shadow of the biggest American holiday. Easter has no compelling and uplifting narrative, like the story of Jesus' birth. Instead it has the story of Jesus' torture...

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Middle-Age Starts Around 36

At the age of 44, I know I am middle-aged. I don't have a problem with this. It's only logical: middle-aged means you're roughly halfway through your life. In fact the next time someone tries to argue that being in our 40s -- or even late 30s -- is not middle-aged, I...

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Dog-Lover/Dog-Tolerant

Dog-Lover/Dog-Tolerant

Last week Bob did some dog-sitting. He loves dogs. I don't love them, but I'm dog-tolerant and knew this would make Bob happy. Coco wasn't very interested in yoga, especially cat pose. She just liked sitting on my mat. Sadly, Coco has gone home now.

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