Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

Loneliness Week 2026

There is no way to eradicate loneliness, but there are ways to help.

I’m Sorry No Longer Means I’m Sorry

It’s not an apology anymore.

What Did Generation X Invent?

Gen X doesn’t include Steve Jobs or Mark Zuckerberg, but we made some stuff.

Katrina

Go to another blog. I have little to say about our national shame that thousands are dying right now in New Orleans because of stupidity and prejudice, but there are plenty of bloggers who do, so read theirs. Here's an example I found on Daily Kos: State of the...

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For now

(Response to Modigli's question about how things are going with my "beau.") I’m afraid I spoke too soon when I wrote that I was seeing someone who might fit the description of “boyfriend.” Here’s why I dated him for six months: 1. Very funny: he made me laugh and...

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Almost Hope

I am almost hooked on ABC's Lost, and while looking up my favorite male lead, Naveen Andrews, 36 years old, I came across this photo. His partner is Barbara Hershey. Yes, that Barbara Hershey. Yes, she's 21 years older than him. Demi and Ashton really didn't do much...

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Initiate Jobsearch

I'm lookin' for a new job, baby, a new job. Yes, the new management at Carson's Ribs is continuing to shake things up and the layoffs keep coming. It's been only managers and kitchen workers so far, but last week the first server was let go and I'm taking this as my...

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Longing, Part Three

In his cassette series, Prosperity Consciousness: How to Tap Your Unlimited Wealth, Fredric Lehrman, a motivational speaker, talks about meeting three monks who are going to visit a big city. The two young monks are awed by the sights, excited by the crowds and...

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Come Write With Me

One day two years ago some ideas came to me for a couple of short stories. I hadn’t written any kind of fiction in decades, but the ideas were so clear, and I had so much free time to fill at my office job, I had to follow through on them. One was the story I...

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Please Tip Your Waitress

Yeah, I know, I'm not supposed to use the term "waitress" anymore, it should now be "server." I don't care. I'm a waitress and I'm okay with it.In today's Chicago Sun-Times, the editorial section features an opinion by Steven Shaw called "Outdated tipping no longer...

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The Carson’s Phoenix

The good news: Carson's Ribs, where I have worked since last fall, is under new management and has some exciting changes in the works. The bad news: I don't know if I'll have a job there much longer. You know how I've complained that business is slow at Carson's Ribs...

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Sleep Less, Gain Weight

Hey, everybody, it looks like the more sleep deprived you are, the more likely you are to gain weight. Finally, a way to fight obesity that isn't about dieting and exercise -- make sure you get enough sleep! An article in the current issue of Nutrition Action...

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Slowly, Slowly

Slow Food is a movement to "protect the pleasures of the table from the homogenization of modern fast food and life." Thank god for Slow Food. The U.S. has almost completely lost the ability to relax and eat with, instead, everyone chomping our nutritionless non-foods...

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Take Your Meds

I'd just like to remind everyone who depends on a little daily chemical help that it is very important that you take your meds as prescribed. Forgetting, deciding you don't need them anymore, wanting to wean yourself off without your doctor's guidance, etc. are not...

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Diego-bashing

San Diego, California that is. This week my sister settles into her new home in Katy, Texas. A 15-year resident of (and now refugee from) the sadly corrupt city of San Diego, she now tells all her California friends to move to Katy (my sister and I were born in Los...

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