Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

What Dementia Might Feel Like, and The Only True Way to Prevent It

Trying to understand one of the worst diseases God ever decided to send us.

I Have No Niche

I hope Substack writers don’t HAVE to have a niche.

“Do You Speak Spanish?” Please Don’t Ask

I wish white people would stop asking this question.

Make Friends With Those With Opposite Beliefs?

In my never-ending movement towards becoming a bigger and bigger geek (at 5 feet, two inches tall, I can only get bigger in this kind of way), I have completely become a National Public Radio listener. It's really my husband's fault: he bought me an iPod for...

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I HAVE A JOB

Finally!I finally have a job! A real, permanent, full-time, salaried position at an international, historical, stable, not-for-profit organization that exists only to do good in the world. My job? To support the staff of the polio eradication division.I'm supporting...

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Married and Lonely

Getting married two months ago was great, but I've noticed that this winter and spring it has been very hard to get my friends to spend time with me. I understand that they are busy. Everyone's busy. And many of them have boyfriends or husbands or even children. But I...

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Thank you, N/A!

A second anonymous person has sent us a wedding gift and it's the bedsheets we've been needing. Thank you, Whoever you are!

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I Am My Mother

I Am My Mother

In case anyone has ever wondered, "What did Regina's mother look like at age 41?" here's a photo to help you out. I took this picture of myself yesterday because I realized that I have now become my mother: it's the hair, the mouth, the expression, the shade of...

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Little Things Make Me Happy (also Big Things)

My friend Donna was one of the many people to whom Bob and I sent a marriage announcement in March. She recently moved and it took a very long time for her to get it. But when she did, she dashed off this email message: Guess what else I finally got? Your wedding...

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Thanks, N/A!

Someone sent Bob and me an anonymous wedding gift through our online registry: the twelve-inch everyday pan. Since you didn't leave your name, I can only hope you read my blog (and I'm guessing it was someone who reads my blog since I posted the info about our online...

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San Francisco’s Top Court Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage

Yesterday California's Supreme Court declared that same-sex couples in California can marry. Finally! It almost makes me wonder what I'm doing in the midwest whenever San Francisco shows its brave, progressive side like this. Gay and lesbian couples that are residents...

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“Spring,” Part II

Another Chicago spring day: 49 degrees at 7:30 a.m, gray and drizzling. Temperatures today are expected to top out at about 56 F and it should rain all day. Hah! Happy Mother's Day! Maybe a sundress and hat? Addition: At 10:30 a.m. it's 47 degrees, raining quite well...

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Big Wedding Favor

Just ripped a pair of bedsheets recently and the situation is a bit dire. Donations?MyRegistry.comName: Regina RodriguezPassword: bobreg.How's that for a shameless plug for wedding gifts, Obesio? Or just have fun looking at our wedding gift registry.

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“Spring”

Today on the far northside of Chicago, it was completely overcast and right around 60 degrees. At 6:30 pm, it's 57 degrees and cooling fast. Shall we slip into mini-dresses and sandals and go clubbing without sweaters? (Refers to my post criticizing the way Chicagoans...

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