Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

Ask For What You Want, Part One

You’re allowed to ask for what you want, and paid staff are obligated to get it for you.

Obsession Is a Fun Ride That Could Have Been More

The One Wish Willow could be to Obsession what the sunken place is to Get Out. It isn’t.

Loneliness Week 2026

There is no way to eradicate loneliness, but there are ways to help.

The Booth at the End

Last weekend I discovered the web series The Booth at the End. Only five episodes were made, shown exclusively on HuluPlus this summer. As I watched episodes one through four, I wished the series went on forever, but when I heard the final line of episode five, I...

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I Look Great

I Look Great

Disclaimer: since I've become properly obese, I re-read these old posts and see my body dysmorphia and obsession with food and weight. It's sad to me now. Previous post on fatness. The ten pounds I put on between Mother's Day and Father's Day has finally started to...

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Borderline Personality Disorder Now Has a Face

Patty Duke and Kay Redfield Jamison have written books about living with bipolar disorder. Famous people who have spoken about their struggles with chronic depression include Sheryl Crowe, Jim Carrey and Owen Wilson. But the mental illness that fascinates me the most...

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Yay, Summer Is Almost Over in the U.S!

Okay it isn't, but I'm trying to cheer myself up by focusing on the return of Chicago's cold weather when: 1. People will stop arguing loudly outside in the middle of the night. 2. No one is in danger of dying of heat-related problems. 3. Our upstairs neighbor's air...

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Thank a System Administrator This Friday

This Friday, July 29 is System Administrator Appreciation Day. A system administrator, or sysadmin, is the person who (from the http://www.sysadminday.com/ website): ...plans, worries, hacks, fixes, pushes, advocates, protects and creates good computer networks, to...

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The Blue Zones: How Much Can You Do?

The "blue zones" are parts of the world where people commonly live past age 100. They are called that because the researcher who originally studied these zones, used blue ink to circle them on his map. So much for mystery.According to Dan Buettner’s The Blue Zones,...

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Cutting the Cake

Cutting the Cake

That cake was so good (yellow cake with lemon filling). I've decided that all my birthday cakes for the rest of my life have to come from Central Continental Bakery in Mt. Prospect, Illinois USA. I had to make that long drive just hours after a record-breaking...

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Today is My Birthday

Today is My Birthday

Today I am 45 years old! I'm very happy about this because I've been looking forward to 45 for a long time. In my 20s, I found life to be challenging and confusing, and I figured 45 was a good age to expect to have found some balance and confidence. It just sounded...

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If You Could Be Any Age for One Week

I've heard people asking other people, "If you could be any age for a week, what age would you be?" Think about your answer for a moment. Okay. So far, everyone has answered with an age they've already been (often childhood). I do not answer with an age I've already...

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Saying the Right Thing

Let's say your name is Chris and you have a friend named Rita. Let's say you see her right outside of your usual coffee shop, while she's carrying her latte out and you’re on your way in for your morning pick-me-up. You say, "Rita, what's up?" She steps out of the way...

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Face Blindness (Prosopagnosia)

At my wedding celebration with Bob in 2008, I met some of his family for the first time. To prepare, I spent months studying a photo of them because I didn't want to fail to recognize them. It took that long for their faces to sink in to my memory because I suffer...

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