Chicana on the Edge

Mentioning the unmentionable since 2004

Ask For What You Want, Part One

You’re allowed to ask for what you want, and paid staff are obligated to get it for you.

Obsession Is a Fun Ride That Could Have Been More

The One Wish Willow could be to Obsession what the sunken place is to Get Out. It isn’t.

Loneliness Week 2026

There is no way to eradicate loneliness, but there are ways to help.

Gray Rhinos

Gray Rhinos

Now that I'm an entrepreneur, I do a lot of networking and meet brand new people every single week. Last week I met a woman whose book is about to come out called The Gray Rhino: How to Recognize and Act on the Obvious Dangers We Ignore. Michele Wucker has intrigued...

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“Young lady??”

“Young lady??”

I was waiting for the bus and struck up a conversation with one of those men who stands with a kiosk of brochures about God, life and whatever religion he is. He was an African-American gentleman who looked like he was in his late 50s or so, and he addressed me as...

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Discouraged

In the fall I began a business that provides services to non-native English speakers who came to the U.S. as adults. I help with communication skills, American social skills and American business culture. It's going well, but any new business takes considerable...

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Post-Holiday Peace

After my year of austerity (drastically reduced sugar, dairy and grains), I totally indulged last week when I visited familia in Houston, Texas. I ate cookies and cupcakes and pie. I also had grain-y foods like pancakes and tamales because I wanted to take a break...

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Houston International Airport, 27 Dec 2015

Houston International Airport, 27 Dec 2015

I think what I like about being at an airport is that it's a kind of limbo. Right now I'm at IAH, where I was booked on a 7:28p flight back to Chicago O'Hare Airport. Instead, I'm now waiting for a 10:45p flight because my other one was canceled. So I sit, pace, eat a...

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Review of The Lyric Opera’s Bel Canto

Review of The Lyric Opera’s Bel Canto

In 2012, work began on the impressive challenge of turning Ann Patchett's novel Bel Canto into a staged, modern opera. Now Bel Canto is playing at the Lyric Opera through January 17, 2016. I heard about it at the beginning of December and, even though I'd never been...

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The Shine Is off Christmas for Me

The Shine Is off Christmas for Me

Now that I spend more time with people who weren't born in the U.S, I see American culture differently. I'm fascinated by the things such people identify as being good and bad about us. I have new appreciation for our American never-say-die attitude and the way we're...

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U.S. Latinos – The Facts

During Chicago Ideas Week I attended Univision's seminar on "Marketing to Hispanics." This is what I learned from the data collected by Univision's marketing department. General facts There are 58 million Hispanics in the U.S. which is 18% of the total U.S....

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It’s Ugly In Here

It's ugly in Chicago. Between the police brutality that gunned down a Black teenager who stood several feet from the nearest officer to the police destroying evidence of Officer Jason Van Dyke's crime to State's Attorney Anita Alvarez refusing to see that there's been...

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“No” Means “Yes” and “Yes” Means “No”

“No” Means “Yes” and “Yes” Means “No”

What is happening to the meanings of "yes" and "no?" I asked someone last night if he and his companion were old friends, and he said, "No, yeah we've been friends for years." On The Daily Show, Noah Trevor asked Gloria Steinem if she thought the women's movement...

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