The big secret I referred to on my blog last month was that my mother was in hospice care. That’s why so many of my June posts were about death. My mother and I had been estranged for years, but we managed to say a loving good-bye when I flew out to California during the first week in June. At her funeral last week, my main emotions were peace and gratitude.
Stop with the Joy
Joy doesn’t feel welcoming. Listening to our pain would be.
My mother and I were estranged, so all I felt was peace and gratitude when she died. I won't say that burying her was one of the best days of my life because that shocks people, so I'll just say that condolences aren't necessary for me. But I thank you all for thinking of me!
I'm sorry for your loss, hope you're doing ok
Hi, Regina. I have to admit I wanted to post earlier on your Mother's passing, but was unsure what to say because of your previous post "What not to say …". But now I just want to say I wish you continued peace. Regina W.
That was me 🙂 – Cece M (not anonymous)
My condolences to you and your family. I am so glad you are at peace. Your mom's contributions to her community were impressive. Thanks for sharing.