I’m 56 years old and looking for a date.
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Medium.com Writing Contest
The competition is fierce for thousands of dollars in prizes. This is what I submitted.
Silver Singles Review, Part 4 – Don’t Bother
[VIDEO: 5 min 53 sec] People over the age of 50: don’t waste your money on dating apps.
Silver Singles Over-50 Dating App, Part 3
No, it’s not going well.
Silver Singles Dating App, Part 2
VIDEO: Dating for women over the age of 50. Part 2 of my ongoing review of Silver Singles.
Silver Singles Dating App, Part 1
VIDEO: Dating when you’re over 50 years old. Watch as I try the dating app Silver Singles.
How To Recognize a Dating App Scammer
The ways I detect a fake dating app profile with a scammer behind it.
Middle-Aged, Divorced, Trying to Date
There’s a version of my life that died back in 2013 and I haven’t grieved it. It’s time to grieve it.
Dating While Depressed
When you're in a major depressive episode, get off your dating apps. I'm not talking about having a blue day. I'm talking about the chronic emotional disorder: clinical major depression that warps your view of the world. If you suffer from this and you're single and...
Brown Guilt
I was talking one day to a friend who is Indian American (as opposed to American Indian. Make sure you have these terms straight). We're both attractive, single, brown-skinned, dark-eyed women who are open to finding a relationship with a man. I was talking to her...
Being Divorced Is Great
During my protracted spinsterhood (didn't marry til I was 41), I did a lot of online dating. Being single-never-married felt like a benefit, or at least a neutral quality, when I was in my late 20s and early 30s, but that changed. By the end of my 30s, being...
If You Date, Please…
This post is for everyone who actively dates, but I'd like to direct it mostly at middle-aged men (my dating pool). If you're on a first date and you're talking and your date's eyes start to glaze over, switch to asking your date questions and get her/him to talk...
Single and Dating Again? Never Mind.
Without that old desperation to find a man - Without that old certainty that I'm a total loser without romance in my life I just can't work up much interest in dating. So, never mind the online dating websites and keeping a constant eye out for available men. It's not...