Chicana on the Edge

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Dating While Depressed

Dating While Depressed

When you're in a major depressive episode, get off your dating apps. I'm not talking about having a blue day. I'm talking about the chronic emotional disorder: clinical major depression that warps your view of the world. If you suffer from this and you're single and...

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Brown Guilt

I was talking one day to a friend who is Indian American (as opposed to American Indian. Make sure you have these terms straight). We're both attractive, single, brown-skinned, dark-eyed women who are open to finding a relationship with a man. I was talking to her...

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Being Divorced Is Great

Being Divorced Is Great

During my protracted spinsterhood (didn't marry til I was 41), I did a lot of online dating. Being single-never-married felt like a benefit, or at least a neutral quality, when I was in my late 20s and early 30s, but that changed. By the end of my 30s, being...

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If You Date, Please…

This post is for everyone who actively dates, but I'd like to direct it mostly at middle-aged men (my dating pool). If you're on a first date and you're talking and your date's eyes start to glaze over, switch to asking your date questions and get her/him to talk...

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Single and Dating Again? Never Mind.

Without that old desperation to find a man - Without that old certainty that I'm a total loser without romance in my life I just can't work up much interest in dating. So, never mind the online dating websites and keeping a constant eye out for available men. It's not...

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