.flickr-photo { border: solid 2px #000000; }.flickr-yourcomment { }.flickr-frame { text-align: left; padding: 3px; }.flickr-caption { font-size: 0.8em; margin-top: 0px; } Regina & chicken, originally uploaded by regrodriguez. Back in 1984, when I was an undergrad...
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what’s wrong with my blog?
Does anyone have any suggestions for how I could fix my blog? The sidebar is down at the bottom! At least, that's what I see. That is how it looks to you, isn't it?
The end of the tunnel!
Tonight I had a very encouraging job interview. Before I went to the interview I was talking to my friend Robert, NYC jazz pianist, about my job woes. I was saying that I feel surrounded by co-workers who crave the tidal wave of customers that crush you and then...
Preferences (or “I’m no poet”)
He's always liked dark hair and dark eyes.I've always liked tall, lanky white guys.If more of our compatibilities rhyme,I could be stuck with this guy for some time.
Which Literature Classic Are You?
Um, okay. I guess this is about right. T.S. Eliot was one of my favorite poets in college. And that was when I had hope for my life. Which literature classic are you? T.S.Eliot: The Wasteland. You are a desperate cry to God, moulded in intricate word-craftmanship....
My Ideal Job
HERE we go! From Craig's list:Looking for Club Dancers Reply to: job-142045031@craigslist.org Date: 2006-03-15, 3:05AM CSTEstablished Chicago nightclub looking for new, fresh, female sexy dancers for Friday night gig. Exp. a plus but not important. Please forward pics...
Part-time Job Search
Okay, here's the compromise solution to my life: I cannot live on what I'm earning as a hostess right now, so I'm back on job search for a part-time position as a server. A part-time job will allow me to earn what I need, plus I'll get a chance to find out what...
Friday’s Chicago Rally
Last Friday March 10th, as I worked at 33 W. Monroe, I noticed there was a demonstration happening nearby. I managed to catch a bit of what was going on, but I was far from really knowing the details. It turns out our friend Elf was there. I asked him to write a brief...
Monday doesn’t look so bad now
From News of the Weird by Chuck Shepherd: The Wichita Eagle reported in January that Mary Capps, 45, had filed a $75,000 gender-discrimination lawsuit against her former boss at a municipal office in Park City, Kansas, claiming he'd used "abusive, intimidating...
I love roses
By the way, my frequent Yorkshire commentator, White Rose Boy, has launched a blog called World of Mick on which he posts quite frequently for a guy who was reluctant to start one.
lost
This hostessing job just isn't feeling like the best fit. I've got the basics down, but there are apparently endless levels of expertise I could try to learn that don't really feel worth the $9/hour plus tips I'm earning. It's been a while since I had a job this...
A Story with a Happy Beginning
I have a confession to make. After dating hundreds of men over the course of my spinsterhood, after too many first dates to count, after believing my heart must not function like everyone else's and, most significantly, after the epiphany of January 3rd that showed me...
Spinsterhood is Powerful
I am proud to be a spinster. Anyone who reads the word "spinster" on my blog and sees it as pejorative is reading their own negative meaning into it. I use the word "spinster" the same way I use the word "bachelor." Here is the official definition: spinster - an...
Lyrics to Solterona (“Spinster”)
© Regina Rodríguez 2004Tía Veronica sits in wedding lace inherited from abuelita.All the dreams of family are sewn into it.But as she feels the lace against her faceshe sees into her mother's life.All the pain, endless drain,a lonely angry wife.And she says,Chorus:I...
Women, try this
One Saturday night a couple of years ago (whenever Open Water was released, anybody know?) I decided to go to the movies. Now I’ve been a spinster for a long time, so I’m used to dining alone, going to movies alone, seeing shows alone, etc. and I have no problem with...