Chicana on the Edge

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Drip

It’s beginning again. Another one. This must be roughly the 324th since the process started when I was twelve. Month after month after month and never for any good reason. The lining becomes plush and thick, “ready to receive an egg,” it said in the Modess pamphlet I...

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Fatty McBlog

Damn it. Can't sleep. Spent last hour reading Fatty McBlog which is a very interesting and often funny blog. At least feel like I've been productive. Check it out, especially if you're at all food-obsessed like me. Their blog reads, "We're not here to lose the weight,...

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The Nick and Tony’s Experiment

My first weeks at Nick and Tony's are going well, but my feet aren't used to this much wear. Being off work for a month really killed my stamina. Trying to build up again.Just about every shift there's competition: a bottle of wine for whoever sells the most glasses...

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No Babies Here

One thing I am very grateful for is never really suffering from “baby fever.” There was a short period around age 30 when I thought I wanted to bear and raise a child, but three years of doing childcare took care of that craving. I know a lot of women like me (coming...

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I’m a Nick and Tony’s Server!

Today on my final day of training as a server at Nick and Tony's, I waited a few tables under supervision and took the “final exam.” The big test took me an hour and included questions I’d had on previous tests, plus new material, such as "Name our cognacs," and...

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My New Job!

Ways my new restaurant job at Nick and Tony's is so much more exciting than my old restaurant job at Carson's:1. Business - Customers! Lots of them. We opened at 11:30 a.m. and the lunch crowd started arriving immediately. Almost every table was full by 12:30 and I...

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New Job

I did it: I found a new job and it starts tomorrow. Carson's Ribs is now in my past and I'm moving on to a better opportunity. A way better opportunity. I'm also nervous. I want to say, why didn't I stay at Arthur Andersen, which was my favorite all-time job? But...

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Desperate No More

Oh my GOD it feels good to no longer be on the desperate manhunt. I had been on a self-hating manhunt for nine years, ever since I turned 30 and began to suspect there was something very wrong with me because I was "still" single. I don't know what has finally broken...

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Hysterical Blackness

A friend of mine has started a blog called Hysterical Blackness that focuses on the racial dynamics of the Hurricane Katrina disaster and aftermath. She describes herself as "a black academic who lives, writes and teaches in the US northeast." From yesterday, I quote...

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Reasons I Wish the Airline Had Not Lost My Luggage

1. Housekeys (I know, I know. I forgot to transfer them from the suitcase to my purse before I got on the plane).2. $100 cash (I know, I know. I forgot).3. Hard copy address book with addresses and phone numbers going back years.4. Cell phone recharger (yeah).5. All...

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Please Stand By

Have been derailed by family emergency. Will post when I have online access again. Typing this at a Kinko's). Internet withdrawal symptoms.

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